The man of God, Prophet Elyon Abel Ezekiel, during in his teaching on 14th February valentine’s day explained that Love is the perfection of dominion and dominion is in operation by Wisdom.
A man that loves you without Wisdom is a game-player because Wisdom is expressed in truth. When you lack the love of God, you can’t love a man or a woman. He further explained that to express the love of God in your home, it has to be by the understanding of Wisdom.
He explained that marriages fail when couple marry based on feelings and not truth and the true expression of love is truth. Charging the congregation to drop feelings and have the understanding of truth before saying YES to a man or proposing to a woman.
Speaking to the men, he said “Every man must have a good relationship with the Holy Spirit to love a woman and have dominion over your home. To be a man is to be responsible and your first responsibility is to God because He gives you instructions on how to rule your home and love your wife.
It is not ‘Erection’ that gives you Direction.
As a man, you have a responsibility to your wife.
Marriage is Responsibility.
If you lack the word, you can’t understand marriage. Taking care of your wife is taking care of yourself because you both have become one. The strength of a man is Wisdom. When you can’t show love to your wife, you are not showing love to yourself.
And in turn, He said to the ladies that you can’t call your husband ‘lord’ without the understanding of his lordship over you as your husband.
Correction is not Hatred. You are not safe as a woman when you are not submissive, you must have a man to cover you which means he must correct you.
Build up yourself in truth and understanding.
As ladies, you must understand why God created you on earth then you will know the kind of man you want to marry. When you begin to understand your purpose on earth, then your feelings will realign itself. Nobody can break your heart because it belongs to God and love is unbreakable. You can only be emotionally destabilized but not heart-broken. It is your decision with the Spirit that determines who you become tomorrow. Being a wife is not when you are married. It is because you are a wife before marriage, that is why you were found and married.
To show you really have a good relationship with God, you must submit to your man. Your husband’s responsibility is to give you Wisdom and your responsibility as a wife is to accept it.
In conclusion, he urged the congregation not to marry selfishly, but Purposefully. There must be an understanding in you that propels love to be seen. When you are committed to God, a committed man/woman will come your way.
When you are responsible, God will bring a responsible man/woman to you. If your mind is not saturated by the understanding of love, your relationship is not relational. I love you, you love me’ is not wisdom in connectivity. There must be wisdom that connects you both for a good relationship to be in view. When your understanding is expressed in love,
wisdom abides in your mind.
