At 34, Nollywood actress Nancy Isime says she’s ready for marriage and prioritizes genuine kindness above all else in a man
Nancy Isime: “Kindness Is Non-Negotiable – I’ll Marry a Kind Man Even If He Has Nothing Else”
Popular Nollywood actress Nancy Isime has opened up about her ideal husband, making it crystal clear that character—specifically genuine kindness—tops her list far above wealth, status, looks, or any other material factor.
In a heartfelt and refreshingly honest conversation with media personality Morayo Afolabi-Brown, the 34-year-old screen star revealed she is fully ready for marriage and knows exactly what she wants in a life partner.
“I am of marriage age. I am 34. Yes, I am a very attractive lady and men can desire me. But I have to choose what I settle with. First of all, I like kindness. I find kindness one of the most attractive traits.
“Before you can be my friend or even relate with me, not to talk of getting married to me, you have to be kind. And I don’t mean performative. I mean genuine kindness. Once you are kind, everything else can be worked on,” she said.
Isime emphasized that she has zero interest in performative gestures or surface-level charm. For her, true kindness is non-negotiable and forms the foundation of any meaningful relationship—romantic or otherwise.
She went further, stating she wouldn’t hesitate to build a future with a kind man even if he lacks in other areas, believing those “deficiencies” can always be addressed together over time.
The actress’s candid revelation has sparked widespread reactions online, with many fans praising her maturity and focus on substance over superficial qualities at a time when materialism often dominates relationship conversations in the entertainment industry.
At 34 and still very much in demand, Nancy Isime’s marriage priorities reflect a growing shift among high-profile women who are choosing emotional intelligence and core values over conventional status markers.
